How “supporting” another person’s goals can be downright harmful.
In our personal and professional relationships, most of us like to think we’re supportive of other people as they pursue their goals. But if in our desire to help, we become, let’s say, “over-enthusiastic,” we may do actual harm. One common mistake is to offer suggestions (even valid ones) too aggressively, or in the wrong […]
Continue readingIs someone’s personal habit driving you crazy? What to do about a “social allergy.”
Ever heard of a “social allergy?” This psychology term refers to the condition of finding someone else’s particular habit intolerable. Does it repulse you that your romantic partner always leaves the cap off the toothpaste? Does it horrify you that your co-worker very loudly slurps her coffee? Social allergies develop over time. When you begin […]
Continue readingDon’t give in to social lethargy or insecurity. Step up & reach out!
Over the last few decades, scientists have determined that we are, above all, social animals. That’s why we need friendships in order to be happy and healthy. It’s also why, to succeed in most professions, you’ve got to get along with other people. But what if you’re feeling left out or rejected by others? Should […]
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